For Better - Or What?: January 2015

January 30, 2015

Guys - Make Valentine's Day Easier on Yourself

If you are a man who looks forward to Valentine's Day with feelings of dread, you are not alone. Many men say that they feel pressured to satisfy their partners' expectations, and that doing so seems impossible.

The situation is not hopeless. As I wrote in a guest post for Digital Romance, it is possible to Relieve Valentine's Day Pressure in 3 Steps. (Follow the link to see the article.)

Although this article is aimed at guys experiencing their first Valentine's Day with a new love, the same basic principles apply to relationships of any length, and can be used by both men and women. A little understanding and common sense go a long way!

January 26, 2015

Valentine's Dinner Costs Too Much!

Perhaps you would like to take your sweetheart out for a special dinner on Valentine’s Day.

The first problem is that you need to make your reservation early. The good restaurants are fully booked for February 14. Those that don’t take reservations are crowded, with a long line of people waiting to get in. Even lower-tier diners may be jammed.

The second problem is the expense. Most upscale and mid-level restaurants have special Valentine’s Day menus. These have far fewer choices than the regular menu, at a much higher price.

Here's the solution.

Go out on February 13th. It's quieter, it's easier to get a table, you can choose anything from the menu, and the price is within reason. In fact, for the same amount of money you’d spend on the special V-Day menu, you can probably go out on both the 13th and the 15th.