tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post153947045698825858..comments2023-12-23T16:09:02.089-08:00Comments on For Better - Or What?: You Weren't WarnedUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post-27903854959811227122013-02-06T12:26:10.379-08:002013-02-06T12:26:10.379-08:00Beth, yes, there are some effective ways to judge ...Beth, yes, there are some effective ways to judge whether or not it's a good idea to get involved with a particular person. In fact, I have an upcoming post on trust that will discuss this. But even a "safe" person can make mistakes, change over time, have a character flaw that asserts itself unexpectedly, etc. Maintaining the marriage and being aware of early warning signs can helpRosemary Westhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14188485725647779804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post-28040920499113903752013-02-06T11:48:04.013-08:002013-02-06T11:48:04.013-08:00I LOVE this idea! I sure do wish that people came ...I LOVE this idea! I sure do wish that people came with warning labels! Although, there are ways to tell if a person is "safe" or not, but many people don't know what those signs are. Great thoughts here and the way you play this against ways to keep marriages together is so helpful as well. I'd love to have you join me over at my place for Wedded Wednesday. My readers would loveBethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13156048755652103073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post-38388018818625025432013-02-03T09:21:23.350-08:002013-02-03T09:21:23.350-08:00I love this, Rosemary. I'm so glad neither CJ...I love this, Rosemary. I'm so glad neither CJ or I came with such labels! Some of the labels that we may have had in our mid 20s are no longer a part of who we are, and we have grown in ways we could not have imagined. It has not all been pretty, but it is ours and we own it. Love is worth it!Tammy Rhttp://www.hoombah.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post-28797380483157866882013-02-03T01:51:56.570-08:002013-02-03T01:51:56.570-08:00Now you tell me. Why couldn't you have written...Now you tell me. Why couldn't you have written this three months ago before I proposed to my fiance? Now I know I am heading to my impending doom. Do kids come with instruction manuals? Lawrencehttp://killmenow.orgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post-41395119069528243942013-02-02T07:57:53.411-08:002013-02-02T07:57:53.411-08:00Well said Rosemary. People can and do change over ...Well said Rosemary. People can and do change over time but its also part of what married life is about. It would be boring otherwise especially if you knew how life would pan out. I love all the new hobbies and things we've tried out together over time. It's been a fun evolution. Whilst I would be devastated if one of your above examples played out I know that with the time and love Grace Pamerhttp://www.romanceneverdies.comnoreply@blogger.com