tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post4155541091449348347..comments2023-12-23T16:09:02.089-08:00Comments on For Better - Or What?: Are You Being Fair?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post-18442430086670259572013-07-27T15:57:20.121-07:002013-07-27T15:57:20.121-07:00Not only does this raise some great thoughts about...Not only does this raise some great thoughts about what fairness really means, it also gave me a huge craving for chocolate cake.Jarrodnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post-6876231544838246892013-07-01T08:37:11.675-07:002013-07-01T08:37:11.675-07:00Wow, Rosemary. What a great story to illustrate t...Wow, Rosemary. What a great story to illustrate the illusion of fairness. It really helped to consider the story from the daughters' points of view. <br /><br />My goodness, if we kept score we would have been divorced a long time ago. When we feel that we need something from each other, we ask. We also do things for each other without being reminded or asked. It's not picture Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01764329077337848159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8241751588454679771.post-37921823777134996972013-07-01T06:53:42.143-07:002013-07-01T06:53:42.143-07:00An excellent debunking of the myth of fairness, Ro...An excellent debunking of the myth of fairness, Rosemary. I always do the floors because Tammy hates it. She always does the tub because I hate that. It certainly feels fair whether or not someone sees it that way.<br /><br />Fairness, used mindlessly as in the chocolate cake example, becomes a bludgeon for tyranny and absolutism. cj renzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03675566889984245731noreply@blogger.com