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January 25, 2016

Don’t Confuse Shared Interests With Shared Values

At the beginning of a relationship, similar interests can draw two people together. Meeting someone who likes the same music or the same outdoor activities creates a sense of comfort and connection. Having similar interests immediately gives us something to talk about without having to search for conversation topics. When we enjoy most of the same activities, we naturally want to spend time together.

When two people are in the early infatuation stage of love, they are thrilled to discover that they have many mutual interests. It isn't unusual to hear someone exclaim with delight, "We have the same favorite movie, we both like Italian food, and we are both into mountain biking. We are so much alike, it's amazing!"

January 19, 2016

Valentine's Day Is Coming - Yikes!

You can't miss it. The sea of red and pink cards filling half an aisle in the grocery store. The heart-shaped chocolate boxes that popped up everywhere the day after Christmas. Your favorite restaurant's advice to make your February 14th dinner reservation now. The red lingerie and silk boxer shorts. Even everyday items like socks, pens, and toilet paper have joined the party.

Valentine's Day is clearly big business. And for many, it's also big emotion.

January 12, 2016

Top Five For 2015

At the end of each year, it's fun to look back and see which posts were the most popular. Here are my top five from 2015.
  1. Thinking About Divorce?
    If your marriage has become difficult, contentious, distant, frustrating, or just plain boring, and you have begun to think that divorce may be the only way to get relief, think again.

January 7, 2016

A Short Break



 I'm taking a short break from blogging while I get caught up on a few things.