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August 16, 2013

Is Your Spouse About to Walk Out?

Patty Newbold recently wrote a great article about what to do if you have been blindsided by a spouse who wants to leave. She has some excellent advice for anyone whose mate has said "I love you, but I'm not in love with you," or is talking about leaving the marriage.

One reader's comment included the observation that it is, after all, the spouse who wants to stay who is the one more committed to the relationship. But things aren't always that simple.

August 12, 2013

I Need Your Opinion

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The time has come to find a new name for this blog that will better express what it's all about. Please click here for a short survey to let me know your opinion about some possible titles. Thanks!

August 8, 2013

Should I Rename the Blog?

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Is "Romantic Marriage" really a good fit for what I'm doing here? Is the title just too sappy to be taken seriously?

Sure, I like to write about romance, date nights, and lighthearted fun. But I also talk about the serious issues that can destroy relationships, and how to avoid or resolve them. I want to help couples with ordinary marriages make them great, and couples with great marriages to keep them that way. One of my goals here is to promote marriage education based on solid research and practical advice.

What do you think? Should I change the name? And if I do, what would be a better fit? So far, all I've come up with is Two the Hard Way. It makes me smile, but it might not be quite the message I'm looking for.

July 31, 2013

The Secret

The secret to a happy marriage isn't really a secret.

July 5, 2013

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I'm taking a short break from blogging because I need to devote my time and attention to some pressing issues.